No matter what kind you decide to buy, keep in mind the strength of the vibration. I'm thinking more in terms of toys that would supply vibrations to your clit in some fashion. My advice? Start out w/toys that have milder vibrations. I think it is a lot easier to adjust to a stronger vibration than it is to end up responding to weaker vibrations once your body is accustomed to the strong vibrations only. Plus, there are "tons" of "milder" vibrating toys to select from, very few that are real strong. I learned the hard way on this. I started out w/a Hitachi wand, one of the strongest vibes on the market. It took me 2 months to get conditioned to it, and I am very sorry that I ever did. Most vibes are much, much weaker, and they usually do nothing for me. Also, if you want to try something for external vibration, consider something as simple and cheap as Crest toothpaste's $5 disposable battery-operated toothbrushes. It also would be a good way to get conditioned to a milder vibration at a next to nothing cost.

Also, many great sex toy sites rate their toys re. the strength of the vibrations and how loud they are, where they can best be used (body part wise), etc. Check out goodvibes.com or Libida.com or the toy reviews at Clitical.com.

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