Hi, timidana! Welcome to Pixies. All those above have said it better than I could. I've been very lucky. My wife and I met on a blind date, went together and married three years later. We've been married now 40 years and truly she has been and always will be that special girl in my life. I hope and pray that you are equally blessed in yours. The others are right ... take you time. You're a special person and you deserve someone just as special.