With the way you're describing all this Michael....it seems so damn clinical. Making love shouldn't be clinical unless you are on a regime to try and conceive....and even then it doesn't have to be a scientific exploration. What a killjoy to hear from your partner, "Is that it honey? Am I anywhere near it?" *poke, poke*........LOL! What difference would it make if you hit point A instead of point C....and yet she still feels wonderful when she is in your arms! What ever happened to...."Oh baby, right there...that feels so good...don't stop"? Why do we suddenly need to map it all out? "Oh yes baby...up 1/2 an inch and back against the front wall.....no....no....up further....up...no....too far....down.....not so far down....up a pinch.....THAT'S IT! Mark that as point "Q" on the map"! How can differentiating between these two (or sixty-six) spots make for a more delicious evening?

I dunno.....sorry for sounding so cynical.....but this seems so unimportant in the whole scheme of things!

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