If possible I please myself before. I find that once I have my first orgasm, I easily start to have multiples. So I get that first one out of the way so i'm ready for a wonderful evening.... = )

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"Yes I did go to him,
but completely against my will,
and yes he did things to me,
things of which I dream of still,"

-Cowboy Junkies "Black-eyed Man"