Hello Horny24/7,

Its almost your 1 yr anniversary of being a Pixie. Glad to see you posting and hope to see more.

1) I don't just 'allow' him to do them. I like both and ask him for them.

2) And neither one is derogatory or humiliating when done with or for someone special. But I agree with Sharni, that it depends on how it's done. I think the attitude and the emotional involvement has alot to do with it.

I'm glad your seeking input and suggestions on this rather then trying to coerce her into doing either. It shows how much you care for her. Give her time. It'll be worth the wait and so much better when you both want it.

teddy