Another male perspective... My wife and I both enjoy anal sex with her penetrating me on occasion. Facials are not our thing so we don't do that, but I agree that it depends on the people involved. It does not have to be degrading. Actually, I think you have to MAKE it that way if that's how you want it. My approach to anal is... Ladies first. Make sure it is enjoyable and comfortable for her, and the man's pleasure is guaranteed. Good luck!

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