First off, I need to say that I have paid for it. Hiring a escort for an hour or two is a very expensive proposition, and at this time I’m unable to continue with that methodology. I refuse to go the street walker scene, very unsafe in more ways than one. I’ve even gone to massage parlors, but those are almost as expensive as the escorts.

You have brought up many ideas that have already been tried and proven ineffective. We have been to counseling, we've talked till the cows have come home and left again. She just doesn't get it. We are cut from different bolts of sex cloth. We are together because we love each other and have children. Yes I will admit that we shouldn’t have gotten married, or at the least gotten divorced early before the kids showed up. What can I say, I’m not perfect and have made some mistakes in my life.

No, I am not looking for an affair. Just a booty-call. Realizing that this will probably never happen, I’ll just have to save my pennies to buy a professional once or twice a year or be very sexually frustrated the rest of my life.

I just thought that since this site is so full of what seems to be sexy people willing to share so much, that you could help. Is this a case where everyone does a lot of talking but no doing? Are the women just attention whores, you can look but no touch? Understand that I’m not trying to put anyone down, but just thinking out loud as to why people, especially women, are so willing to share their sexy pics, thoughts, stories etc but not actually share their bodies. Help me to understand. It has been suggested that if there is something missing in my marriage where I need to go elsewhere to get it then I should get out of the marriage. I could say the same thing to everyone here. If your relationship with your SO is such that you need to post what you do here, then you are missing something important to you and should find another companion that gives you what you want. That makes about as much sense doesn’t it?