Perhaps your question is not really the one you asked? This site is many things to many people .... there are many couples who have come together via this site, but it's not really a dating site per se. There are some who have shared pics who have come together for what sounds similar to a "booty call", but the truth is as Steph said, there are a lot of men out there looking and that allows women to be selective in who they actually meet up with ... and many women want something more than a quick one night stand and no emotion attached.

I personally have sexual "conversations" with a select couple of men .... I love writing stories, but am not looking to meet up with someone who is not caring and respectful toward me ... there are already too many risks ... so, I don't believe I'm an attention junkie, but I'm not really looking to hook up with someone from the site either ... if it happens, I wouldn't mind, just not the primary reason I'm here.

I would suggest that whatever route you take that you be open and honest in the search, I know there are dating sites out there that are open about what the person's marital status is, find a couple of those and sign up then make yourself known to those who interest you .... don't be discouraged about the ones you don't hear back from ... personally, I don't respond to men who list certain things ... just not comfortable with those and so I know it isn't worth getting friendly in those situations. Hope some of what I said is of help.