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Old 11-10-2003, 06:09 AM
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Yep I'd agree with seriousfun. Nothing wrong with going to a bar by yourself - especially not if you're hoping to meet people!
Trust me, when you go to a bar with friends, you're much less likely to venture away from your 'comfort zone' - the pack. By yourself, you can go when you want, have a few drinks, smile and be friendly, and just be yourself.

A word of caution too - don't try too hard! Walking around with a pack of condoms in hand and telling everyone you're desperate to get laid is NOT going to work in your favour! Set out to enjoy your evening - go to have fun and meet people and make freinds. I'd even suggest keeping sex off the menu the first few times you do it. Just go to get used to saying hello, getting to know people etc.

Just relax, be yourself, be confident and don't be scared. You're young, there's no hurry - take your time and proceed at your own pace!

Good luck! Keep us informed!
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