Welcum to Pixies gibson!

Great advice jenna!

It doesn't have to come out as harassment. Just be honest and state your case!

"________ (insert her name), I've been thinking about something for a while now....and if I'm way off base, please say so......but I have to be honest with you. Whenever we are together I get the feeling that there is an attraction between us that could be more than just friends or business associates. Am I wrong in thinking so?"

Now, the ball is in her court.......and you've put in all the disclaimers and you've shown your sincerity in not wanting to offend her and you've proven you are up front and honest to boot! There is no possible way you could end up looking like an ass after putting that out there! If she agrees.....yes, there is an attraction of the more intimate kind......well, now ya know! And if she disagrees.....no, there is no attraction on her part and she's sorry to have mislead you.....well, then you just appologize again in misreading her feelings and tell her that you hope there is no harm done but that you do enjoy her company and like doing business with her and that you had to ask to make sure her intentions weren't being ignored or misconstrued!

It's truly that simple! Take the mature, honest route and you'll never go wrong!

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