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Old 11-10-2003, 03:46 PM
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I just found this thread and all the advice above is great! LMFAO@PF and WI, as a matter of fact!

However, I had some thoughts that weren't mentioned and I beg you hun.....please don't take these things the wrong way. I am truly trying to help you get some insight!

1) Does your s/o's stomach bother him (that he has mentioned out loud) on any other occasion when sex isn't involved? What I mean is....does this "stomach ache" only ever come about just after you ask for or indicate that you'd like him to perform oral on you? If he gets stomach aches a lot.....he should see a doctor about them. They could be a warning of ulcers.....or a number of other medical problems. But, if it's ONLY when oral is involved.....you have to discuss this with him out of the situation!

2) Have you ever asked him.....out of a sexual situation.....if he likes or dislikes performing oral?

3) Do you have (or could you have had) a slight yeast infection that may be causing an odor that you cannot detect? Are you comfortable enough with your s/o to ask him if he dislikes something upon performing oral on you...such as an odor, a discharge...etc.? If you don't ask....he might never tell you just to spare your feelings. And if it is an odor that is the cause....see a doctor and he can cure that in no time!

And please keep in mind.....there are some men who just don't like doing it.....for whatever reason! But, I think you need an explaination from him to set your mind at ease. Talk to him.......ask questions and be sure to let him know that he can be honest and you won't get angry with his answers (if that is indeed true).

Good luck hun....and keep us posted!
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