First of all - thank you EVERYONE for your insight and advice. It is so helpful to hear what other people think about your situation in order to be able to solve it in the best way possible. I really appreciate the kind words and thoughts.

Perhaps I should give an update! The first night that we went home after I posted this thread I had a talk with my SO. Yes, he does have stomach problems quite often and is on medication, perhaps I should have taken that into consideration - but I just wanted to be pleasured. There is more to our relationship than oral sex, and there is no "bedside tally". I was purely using numbers as an example. We talked extensively about why he wasn't "going down", because it is something that he doesn't mind doing - just doesn't do it often. He basically told me that sometimes his stomach hurts and eating pussy is just not at the top of the menu. I understand that, to a point, and I made him aware of the fact that I had needs and that my needs needed to be taken care of. He asked if there was something else that we could do on the days that his stomach hurts that would alllow me to have as much pleasure. I was impressed by that, and that idea let me know that he does care about pleasing me and maybe sometimes his stomach just hurts and I should get over it.

So.... we will see how this goes for a little while. Thanks again for all of ya'lls insight and I will definately keep everyone posted!!

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