I just wanted give a thank you and a gargantuan hug to those who have responded through posts and PMs. Your advice has been very helpful to me. I know now that this is something I definately want to try and that I am not the only one in this situation. Again, thank you!

P.S. WickedWanda, thanks for the update on Kim's. I had been planning on going there this weekend, but lol, I guess that will have to be postponed! I guess I'll just have to drool over all the hot gay men at Oz