I once heard my grandparents having sex and yes...I might be scarred for life.

Our daughter once burst into our room as we were attempting to disentangle ourselves and dive under the covers and just said "oooooookay" and turned around and left. We just burst out in laughter & said "Should we start her therapy now or wait until she shows signs of trouble?"

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.