DM I feel your pain. I've had several disagreements with my son's mom. I finally had to get out of my "just smile and go along" mode I usually assumed. She now knows I will see my son and could care less where she's going or with whom. Things have blossomed since I exploded and I pretty much see him whenever I want with some exception for any "family plans" she's made. I wish you the best. As the alienated entity in a divorce, we as fathers are usually the losers. Occassionally though, with proper tact and patience we can get a fair deal. When that doesn't work, well those times we show our fangs and let them know we're caring parents too and won't go away quietly.

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