DM383,

I'm probably not the right person to say too much here, 'cos

my ex and I didn't have the third party problem in the early days.

It is fair enough that the new partner have time with "R", but

not at the expense of the relationship with you.

Are they still asking you to look after "R", just so they can go out

partying, or have they settled down?

Tough thread with more teeth than an Osmond convention.

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