I believe you've been misinformed about the using a bullet internally. You are only not suppose to use a bullet anally, yet that doesn't stop some people, but I wouldn't.

As I've mentioned before in another thread, my sister sells sex toys and stuff and she talks about how you can insert the bullet into the vagina to make lovemaking more intense.

They make sex toys tougher than you think and unless you are in active labor and your cervix is dialated its virtually impossible to "lose" anything inside your vagina. Even if it did slip off of the wire the vaginal tube is only about 6-10 inches deep and anything can be retrieved with the right amount of lube and sitting on the potty to push it out(yes, i'm too well educated on this matter). Although it is QUITE possible to 'lose' something in your anus (no I don't know that part for a fact) so I don't suggest inserting anything completely into that opening.

Personally, I've used a bullet vaginally with a partner and Its MAGNIFICENT! Of course, if the metal of the wires was exposed or had been repaired, I would suggest just going and getting a new one. they're only like 10 bux after all. But as long as you haven't done any significant damage or overuse to the thing, there would be no reason to not use it inside your vagina.

As for the clitoral diffusion, they sell several different types of silicone/vinyl/rubber sleeves that would de-intensify the sensation, and you can turn them down to virtually a purr with the remote. Oh, and to hold them, don't be afraid to use the wire. You're not going to pull them out just by holding it firmly enough to keep it still.

Trust me, if they were that fragile, they wouldn't be top selling vibrator in the world!

Hope I helped.

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