First, you should wait until your head and your heary tell you that you're ready. Second, you should pick a man you feel comfortable with -- who you care about and who cares about you. Third, you should act with caring and integrity, so you don't ever regret a single moment of the experience.

The man I shared my virginity with -- when I was 13 -- was my boyfriend and best friend. While we're no longer romantically involved, we're still the closest of friends. And I've never regretted sharing that experience with him -- not for a single moment.

I wish the same for you -- that you have a good experience (when you're ready) and that you never regret your decision. Best of luck!

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney