Well... I had a girlfriend and we did a lot of things, except intercourse. I'm still a virgin at 19. You can still have an amazing time without having intercourse, by doing everything else. I disagree and agree with OzKristin; you can get closer having sex, but you don't necessarily have to have intercourse to prove your love for someone.

I recently broke up with my girlfriend but I am glad I didn't give her my virginity. It made me realize that the whole sex thing is so overrated and that I'm going to wait for someone who I know will be there for me in my future to do it with. While you’re in a relationship you get caught up in the heat of the moment and you lose perspective on things.

Being a male and saying that is hard enough in this sex obsessed society. But I think it's worth it in the end, and the woman I am with will appreciate that I’ve waited, that’s the real proof of love.

In comparison, I get compliments from men and woman alike who are amazed that I've never smoked a cigarette or weed before in my life. I still have no desire to ever try.