01-22-2004, 03:12 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posts: 2,316
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Originally posted by Lilith
Some people only understand love expressed through violence. They subconsciously seek out people that will make them feel secure with their past experiences. She needs counseling to help her to be aware of the choices the is making. Not much you can do except to not enable her making poor choices by coddling her and accepting her behavior. If someone beats you, you walk. That is the only acceptable choice...if she does not walk then you have to let her know you do not support her choice to continue to allow herself to be harmed.
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She will now be having counselling. She has also reported some of the things to the authorities. I am hoping she does ok. On the down side she has been put on medication which can cause problems of its own. I am keeping an eye on her. As much as I can from over here.
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