For years, I insisted on it being hung 'over' while Mrs. WI insisted it was stupid of me to insist anything and that I wasted too many brain cells even discussing it. Then we had kids, and I discovered that hanging it correctly (over) enabled them to unroll the entire tube onto the floor with greater ease. It's been hung incorrectly ever since.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.