"Lesbian Bed Death"
Is one of those hot button ( No pun meant, honest!!! LOL ) topics in Lesbian politics and social discusions.
Supposedly, in long term relationships, our sexual activity drops off after awhile, sometimes to nothing.
I have sisters who argue this is a myth, but in my own experiences it has happened. In my case I ended the relationship.
It is normal for us to have a LOT of sex in a new relationship,
learning your new partner, her body, her repsonses, maybe even trying a few fantasies on each other. And things do settle down. But sex between two women is so different.
There is a joke among us, "sex between two women is a lot like sex between a man and a woman, it just take 40 minutes longer, and you orgasm more."
I am not knocking men here. I love you all, and I am as cock hugry as any other woman, believe me. But if I have sex 4 times in a month with my partner, that is likely as much time spent having sex with a man 20 times.
Also, there is nesting to consider. We tend to spend time arranging our homes and lives to make us feel at home. I know men dot, but there is a difference.
Add children to the mix (yes lesbians do have kids) and the world has to be re-arranged again.
But sometimes the enrgy leaves, and months go by without much happening beyond a little hand holding.
We talk, we argue, negotiate, and sometimes we breakup.

Life is complicated when you explore new things constantly

Wanda

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho