Sorry, after re-reading my first post I can easily see how you got the wrong idea. I couldn't concentrate enough to explain fully.

Basically, my idea was go out and scope the place until I find a guy that strikes whatever fancy I might have at the moment. I go up to him and ask if I could buy him a drink or something. We talk enough to (A) make sure he's gay or bi and (B) explain that I've never tried anything with a guy even though I've considered myself bi for several years and that quite simply I would like to try sucking dick.

Sorry for not explaining the situation fully.