I read this last night and could not adequately respond at the time. Been thinking of it on and off.

But having read the 2 previous replies I agree with them.

Pornos are grist for the imagination and add spice to the meal.

They are not the main course. You dear girl are the main course and the desert. He is your finace which means he has asked you to marry him and spend the rest of your life with him. That is a very significant thing.

Also the thing about him watching 2 of your female friends kiss. That would get my complete attention too and would turn me on. Men find that very erotic. Its not a reflection of his attraction to you, it has nothing to do with you or any attraction or fidelity issues. It was real, hot and erotic in front of his eyes.

There is so much to learn about yourself, him and as a couple, sexually, emotionally practically and any other ..ly you can think of You are young have not had much experience so you will grow and change in your attitudes to many things yet.

best of luck and do not worry too much, I think your man is just trying to add to your intimacy.

Another thought, if you remain concerned, ask him openly, having that communication is very important in a realtionship. I imagine his reaction would be surprise that you thought that way.