
02-20-2004, 01:16 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: The Uncharted Territories
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Cabanah,
One technique I found very useful, and I wish wish wish I could remember where I saw it was t oslow down your breathing. If you've ever done yoga (or lamaze for that matter) one of the things that you work on is breathing to address pain, in my best days i can get past a bad headache with it. Well the same things works apparently with pleasure. If you can focus on breathing slowly and deeply you can slow the orgasm, while sacrificing none of the pleasure (m wife was actually turned on by the eavy breathing) a couple of other things helped too, touching and caressing her alot, focusing on her will keep yo ufom getting to the end too quickly, and lastly, keep your muscles relaxed, legs especially, you'll note that approaching and during orgasm you usually tense in the feet and legs (at least I do) if you can keep loose, the orgasm will be delayed this isusually easiest for me with her on top. I know these may sound too simple, but we had a similar experience where infrequent sex had led to overstimulation when opportunity presented itself, and these helped thanks.get me back on track. Best of luck, let me know if it helps.
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