so quick question--when most of you have sex with your partner do you slam it home like your dick is on fire or do you go slow? My wife and i have tried the slow and low method to help me and i just never get anything out of it. But the fast and the furious makes me go quick. hmmm maybe i need to try out some more methods. Also has anyone ever had their wife try one of those libido boosting pills like avlimil?????????????