Ok.... Honestly, Like so many before said, I think every guy has insecurities. of course, each guy has a different one.

1) I, in the past was very annoied with my s/o, and he talking about her past. Matter of fact, she still had guys calling her after I moved in. And they knew I was with her! Fact is, She is choosing to be with you. yes, the past can hurt. It sometimes will make you hurt or get sick, more than other times. But that's all that it is. The Past. You can't change it. Why worry? Get happy, that it's the past, and not now, and let your woman sit on your happy face. If she still did it, without you, and you found out, That'd be a problem. BUt seeing as how it was past material, just let it die and fade away with the past. After all, why dwell on it if it's painful to you? Also- That past may have helped her become whom she is now. She may have learned things from that past that is essential to whom she is now with you, in your private moments together. Your whole like if a learning expirence. "You can either run from it, or learn from it."

2) The toy, simply is a TOY. Matteries, and plastic. if you're letting a piece of plastic ruin your sex life, You're in sad shape, my friend. lol.
Anyways- My s/o has a Bullet/rabbit. She uses it every now and then, but I don't mind, as long as she's using it with me, and not by herself. I wanna be there to enjoy it as much as she is. And when she does use it, I want her to use it because i know it makes her happy. IF I've learned one thing from relationships : "if she ain't hapy, You ain't happy, And if she ain't happy long enough, You're gonna be unhappy with half your stuff."
Now, only half of that applies here : "If she ain't happy, You ain't happy." Whether you like it or not, relationships are 2 sided. Not a single one can work without another person. Yes, you have skills that a toy doesn't, BUt that toy has skills you dont. if you're uncomfortable with what that toy is doing for her, You've gotta step it up, and do what you do better! Make her forget about it!
or, you can do what I do : Use every toy you can find, make it so incredible for her, You'll blow her mind. I think it's sexy when my woman helps me get off. So help her! I know she'd appreciate it more than you getting aggrivated at her by using them.

Than again, that's just my opinion.
GOOD LUCK!

May The Force Be With You!

__________________
........Who wants some? >: |