I personally believe there are different types of sex, just like there are different types of love. Love is easier to demonstrate to let's do that first...

Do you love your kids/mom/family the same way you love your SO? I think not.

Now...Let's talk about sex. I can enjoy sex with my S/O -- perhaps for the emotional connection, perhaps for comfort...sometimes even because he's good at it (when he's willing, of course...which is rare).

But sex with someone else...perhaps because of your friendship with them, or because of physical attraction, or novelty...is different. Some people have a "need" to experience both in their lives.

Who am I to judge?

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney