Not a thing, dreamgurl. I was a virgin until I was 21. And on the day I lost it, I was ready, unafraid, and had a wonderful experience. You'll know when you're ready, merk. And part of being ready will definately be finding someone who you feel comfortable with. Then the fear all goes poof, and it's nothing but fun.

Oh, and me three on the condoms....nothing like worrying about pregnancy or contagious nastiness to ruin the mood.