I certainly would never take that choice away from you. You should live your life however is comfortable for you. I am sorry if you thought any differently. I respect your feelings and your personal credo.
I'm also sorry about whatever has happened to you that has created your hostility and closed mindedness. Please don't let me add to it. My response was not personal in nature. Just allow me my opinion without censure. Thanks.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours