I read all that has passed above.....and am taking two lessons home with me. First, that I'm a lucky girl to have the man I do.....not bragging, just thanking everyone for the reminder. Second, that life is not a "one size fits all" commodity.

I'm sorry for the pain, I can't fix any one it...and the fixer in me hates that. But I hope it helps a tiny bit that someone's learned something from it.

Hugs all around.

G