I really don't know what to tell you other than it sounds as if you may end up having to use some sort of lube.

Eros is a good brand...it isn't just for lube use either. You may want to look into that - you can use it as a "conditioner" and it may help.

One thing to keep in mind...the more chapped you are the more painful it can get, and that can lead to infection, not just for you but for her as well. Also, if it gets any worse perhaps a visit to the doc would be in order.

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