Jenna,

Thanks for your input. I agree with you 100%. In fact, I have tried to talk to her and have open communication about each other's expectations (not just sexual). We have actually agreed to a few things but the plans are never executed. It seems she just tells me what I want to hear so I will forget about it. Maybe because she is the bread winner ( I am stay at home dad) she thinks she is the one to be serviced sexually and emotionally. I will keep trying to be responsive to her but it has to go both ways. No?