I have a friend "with benefits" who also happens to be the first and only girl that I have had any sexual relations with... When I tried to finger her she said it hurt and that we guys always do it wrong anyways. She is also a virgin if since that probably matters. Later that evening I ate her out and she only had one orgasm after twenty-some minutes. Is any of that normal and what can I do to make it better for her since she is already able to make it great for me.