urban v country??? Neither!
geeez I have been either in a Suburban or an ExUrban environment for as long as I can remember. Wide open spaces mean a quater of an acre lot and a lawn to mow. Going to the store generally means a 5 minute trip by car. Now I can walk to a bodega but "the city" is a short train ride away.
My preference is to live with space and conienvience near to the wildlife and the nitelife.

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