Read. This forum is a good place, but quite a few of the posters here are in the "experienced+" expertise category. Check out amazon.com and look for books on sex, relationships and intimacy. Laura Corn is a great author. She has several books out with tips, tricks, techniques and whatnot. She has some workbook type texts with pages you can tear out filled with scenarios and instructions on how to please your lover and yourself.

The other advice I can give you is to be free with your passions. Encourage your husband to explore his desires and yours. You do the same. Have sex in different ways. Do it at different times of day. Try new positions. Explore!

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"Even a man who is pure of heart
And says his prayers by night
Can become a wolf when the wolfbane blooms
And the moon is full and bright."