Raven i think that you need to let the numbers go. there was thread before of you asking if we thought you were a slut for sleeping with x number of guys in x amount of time and i thought that the only reason youd ask is if that thought had crossed your mind.

now that we see you are keeping stats i think you are placing too much emphasis on the statistics and less importance on the experience and the joy and pleasure that these experiences are bringing you. i just hope that you dont see yourself as a slut and that you are having sex in all forms because you love it.

i dont mean to preach but i hope that you are hapy with you and not trying to please everyone else at the expense of your dignity.

as i read this over i see that it may come across as harsh but i though it needed to be said.

take it or leave its here