I had an ex-g/f who insisted on me calling her whore, slut, and bitch in bed. I was a bit uncomfortable doing that do to the respect factor towards women that's been drilled into my head since grade K where you don't hit or tease the girls, etc.

Whenever we'd gotten into an argument she'd want me to take it out on her sexually. She was into it really rough. When I wouldn't get into it right away she'd prevoke me. In the end I gave in and we ended up with claw marks and bruises.

At times I wondered if she wanted to prove that you can rape the willing. I'm still not too comfortable with it but it's lady's choice and up to her discretion.

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Deep into that darkness peering,
long I stood there, wondering, fearing,
Doubting, dreaming dreams
no mortal ever dreamed before.