hey J how are you? Let me say first of all, bi-sexuality is not something to be afraid of. It only opens your options to good times. For years, when i was younger, i didn't know what was "wrong with me" due to the feelings i had for other guys. Like a few other folks i had same-sex relationships in school, some actualised, some fantasised but all enjoyed lol. All that same time i enjoyed sexual relationships with many many women. None are mutually exclusive from the other, both are just enjoyable. My advice is to be free, and more importantly, feel free. Life is too short and sex with a man and sex with a woman can be soooo exciting. Sex with both at the same time may just rock your socks off lol,,,