some items i would have to say......

bottle of good wine - for licking off different parts of the body
scarf/handcuffs
blind-fold
anything that you can insert safely.

a game i like is to tie up your partner and blindfold them. they then have to guess what you are probing/touching them with. great fun but gets messy with cream and stuff.

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