My S/O is a woman, so my answer comes from a little different place
The person on the bed would be our friend Karen.
(Tall, a nice figure, gorgeous hair, funny,with a strong sense of adventure (sexually)
But I try to avoid FFF 3sums. More comlicated than any other kind Ihave been in.

WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho