There are any number of assistance groups, formal
and informal to help people like you. It sounds like there
no kids to complicate the issue. The name of the game is
to get out while you still can.

Self respect comes with acceptance of the total you,
good and bad. Don't let him rob you of this.

The fact you've approached the Forum on this says
he hasn't broken you, so please keep it that way.

Seek avenues, even if you don't use them immediately.

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