i've also never chosen my partner based on his size. i've had partners that were bigger than 8 inches and ones that were maybe 4 and so far, i've found the bigger the dick, the crappier the lover. i dunno if it's just because they're relying on their massive size (?) to do it on it's own, or if the guys who feel like they're average just do a little more research and try harder, but the average to smaller guys i've been with have been MUCH better lovers. my girlfriend wasn't bad either, and she didn't even have a cock
and i really don't dig it when guys "bottom out" cuz it usually results in cramping and bleeding for me and that makes me kinda grumpy.