Welcum to Pixies blueraider! I'm so sorry to learn of your plight and I'm glad that you have come to talk about it! I do know of a reg. Pixie who has been in a similar situation...but I wouldn't want to "out" him here, in case he doesn't want to talk about it anymore. I'm hoping he'll read your thread and comment on it for you! There is life after a loveless marriage hun! Hang in there and maybe my friend will be here soon to reply. I'll PM him to call his attention to this thread for you.

In the meantime...look around the place and get aquainted! We're a helpful and friendly (and sexy as hell) bunch! Hope you enjoy the place as much as I know most who come here do!

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