A marriage is definately work and it can get in a rut at times but it's up to BOTH of you to get somewhat of a spark going again. Not too long ago my husband and I were having problems and it took BOTH of us to realize that we love eachother and wanted to be together so we tried to do things different. I am sure having children would put a kink in OUR time, but there are things you can do together to help out, atleast I hope there is. You should both be happy and you should try being friends too. When you're friends, you can discuss anything. You never know, maybe she's feeling the same way as you are. Welcome to pixies and good luck to you!

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~Tainted Love~