That's a really good question. I think that there will always be some fantasy that's better left to the imagination. Thoughts of the forbidden or unattainable can be wonderfully stimulating...and once turned into reality lose that amazing quality about them. My husband and I have only ever been sexually involved with each other. One of my biggest fantasies is me being with another man. It's the lure of the unknown, the what if's..... but if given the chance, even with my husband's blessing, I doubt I could ever turn it into a reality. That special bond we share, along with the fantasy, could never be the same as it was, before.

So, I guess I would have to stick with my gut feeling, that some fantasies are wonderful and amazing simply because that's what they are...fantasies