My husband and I have both been intimate with other people, but it was never and will never be a secret, the only thing I felt guilty about was the lack of guilt while doing it! But if he was even hanging out with someone else and hiding that from me, I would naturally be jealous, he knows he should just ask, I usually have no problem with anything he's up for. Besides, most of the time it's harmless flirting, and since I love to go out and flirt too then I can understand that need.

I do believe it all depends on the person and their relationship. As our relationship grows, so do we, and as we change, so does it, so all this may seem obsurd years down the road.

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