She came here of her own free will, and it's apparent to me that perhaps it was to fill a void in her life and relationship with you. Maybe that's why she didn't make it known to you. Sounds as though she was afraid you would judge her harshly for expessing her sexuality...and she was right. How dare you judge me or anyone else on this site! I can understand your feelings but it is obvious to me that you have not looked at a single post other than your wife's picture threads. You have not seen the warmth and depth of these boards. I pity your shallow view and your rush to judgement. I also resent your taking your religious stance to chastise the members of this forum on behalf of your insecurity. I suggest you talk with your wife...openly, honestly. And when you do so I suggest you realize that your wife is also a sensual, sexual creature. There is nothing wrong with that. It's natural and within God's grand design. Quit trying to control your wife, that is not your place. I'm not saying that she wasn't in the wrong for not being forthcoming with you, but judging by your response I can see why. You say you spend 65 hours a week at work, perhaps that's not the kind of support she needs. Perhaps she needs an attentive husband who will listen to her and openly appreciate her. Good luck to you both...and especially to you Angela. To you sir...well...forgive my repeating above sentiments, but judge not lest ye be judged.