Tshindon,

You certainly have one heck of a way of getting even with your wife.

If you hold all that you say as sacred then why come here and vent?
I understand your hurt but placing yourself above the rest of us(including your wife) is not a reason to come here and preach.

You state very clearly that the two of you have worked things out and are moving on. Well good for the two of you, but did you really have to come here and make this matter a public forum just to make yourself "feel better"?
You want your marriage and personal life to remain private without interference from outsiders, yet you come here and invite at will everyone to join you, to read your hurt, your anger. You come back again after saying you wouldn't! Why?
Instead of returning to the source of your pain.....move on and quit embarrassing yourself. AND don't blame us or your wife for your actions in this matter. You could have dealt with this privately and you should have. Just my$.02