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Originally posted by tshindon
I just want to say that I fully understand my wife role in what she did. That is something to be dealt with in the privacy of our own home, not on a public forum. The reason I posted this is because I hate you for the things you have been doing with her. If I caught her cheating cheating in a physical relationship I wouldn't only blame her, but the other guy as well. I can't hold on to that kind of hatred in my life, I already forgave Ang, and I want to forgive you and move on with my life. I couldn't forgive you until you knew how much you hurt me. You gave her self confidence, feelings of exceptance, made her feel sexy, made her feel wanted, made her feel proud...this is all stuff that you striped from me! I'm over it now, I just needed you to know how I feel. I never expected you to recieve my message, and never cared if you did, I just needed you to know. If you don't think what I said applied to you, then it probably didn't. I realize it was only a handful of people she talked to regularly. Just remember that there are real people involved here, and people are getting hurt, I forgive you all, and just want to move on with my life now.

I knew you'd be back. You sweetheart are a very insecure person. you need to grow up! Your wife loves you very much and YOU better not hurt her! Hate is an evil thing. you of all people should know this. We don't hate each other here and neither should you. If you haven't figured it out yet , you discovering this site has made you aware of your own shortcomings in your relationship with your wife. You need to learn from this experience and start listening to her. If you would have she probably wouldn't have been here in the first place. She isn't the whore you think she is. She just wanted to be appreciated and loved and paid attention to. All you have done is tried to threaten and scare and humiliate people. Are you proud of that? You married her, you don't OWN her and you have no right to try to control her That my friend is NOT what marriage is all about. We stripped nothin from you. She shared with us, That's all. BTW I don't post my pics all over the internet. This is a PRIVATE site. Members only or I wouldn't be here. Remember .......... the greatest gift is love.
P.S. we forgive you too.